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Excuse me sir, you're an ass!
I try not to complain about individuals I know too too much in my personal journal. Not being a high school student, I don't nessesarily want everyone on the planet knowing all the intricacies of the tangled Web of Wednes. But today, I must make an exception.
I have this freind, or rather HAD this friend who was very unlike me. He was a straight laced guy who was in many ways, so ordinary that he was extraordinary. He wrote country songs and had a radio show, he had splendid triva knowlege and was even pretty good in the sack (I met him years before I met H).
Over the years he has limited his contact with me whenever he found a new girlfreind. That was a drag, but whaddaya gonna do? Well, the new girlfreind has decided that he and I shouldn't be alone in a room together, ever. And he has decided that "since we're so different it's just not worth the hassle".
Well, I have a few comments:
1- How whipped *are* you anyway?
2- People learn and grow by spending time with people who are different than they are. If everyone were just like ourselves, we'd never be expesed to new ideas or new points of view.
3- It greatly hurts my feelings to hear that my freindship is not worth the effort.
4- What kind of a relationship does a person have when they can't be trusted to visit with freinds? That's just stupid.
5- You sir, are an ASS!
But let me ask, how common is it that people "forbid" partners from seeing other people. Have you ever done this to your partner? Have you had it done to you? What was the outcome? Do tell!
I have this freind, or rather HAD this friend who was very unlike me. He was a straight laced guy who was in many ways, so ordinary that he was extraordinary. He wrote country songs and had a radio show, he had splendid triva knowlege and was even pretty good in the sack (I met him years before I met H).
Over the years he has limited his contact with me whenever he found a new girlfreind. That was a drag, but whaddaya gonna do? Well, the new girlfreind has decided that he and I shouldn't be alone in a room together, ever. And he has decided that "since we're so different it's just not worth the hassle".
Well, I have a few comments:
1- How whipped *are* you anyway?
2- People learn and grow by spending time with people who are different than they are. If everyone were just like ourselves, we'd never be expesed to new ideas or new points of view.
3- It greatly hurts my feelings to hear that my freindship is not worth the effort.
4- What kind of a relationship does a person have when they can't be trusted to visit with freinds? That's just stupid.
5- You sir, are an ASS!
But let me ask, how common is it that people "forbid" partners from seeing other people. Have you ever done this to your partner? Have you had it done to you? What was the outcome? Do tell!
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Unless it is some cowardly way of ending the freindship without taking any responsibility.