I'm thinking people can Email or phone in their RSVP, it just means I'll have to keep careful records.

Katie told me about your Krispy Kremes, which I thought was an awesome idea. I wanted to have chocodiles, but H doesn't like them. We are still thinking about cupcakes but they are like, $50 more.

I've heard that opening the gifts at the reception is tacky, but I've also known people who've done it. Seems like time away from dancing and merriment just to ooh and aah at material things.