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wednes ([personal profile] wednes) wrote2006-05-14 12:18 am
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It's silver, thank you very much!

Note to self: place drug order through semaphore, smoke signals, tin cans tied with string, or other non-phone device. This news of course, comes less than a year after Yahoo! gave away everyone's search information without a warrant and without telling anyone. Then Google fought it, but basically did the same thing. Egads, I can remember when other countries were jealous of all the rights we Americans enjoy. Or maybe they weren't. After all, I learned that in school and a whole bunch of school-taught lessons turned out to be utter bullshit.

Moving on, am I correct in thinking that a hair dresser should never, EVER comment on how much gray hair someone has? I walked out without bothering to get my haircut, so pissed was I that the woman laughed and suggested a dye job. I stopped coloring my hair a few months ago for the express purpose of finding out how much gray hair I have naturally. And in truth, I was thinking about coloring it again. While I don't have as much gray now as I did when I was 17 (I was a stressed out teenager), I do have some. Come to think of it, H has way more gray than me and he's 4 years younger. Anyway, I had to Email a mean Email to this elusive "Sam" letting him know that his staff is something less than "Fantastic."

Now I totally don't want to color my hair just to be defiant. I'm 35, which seemed pretty old to me when I was a tiny kid. So it's normal and natural to have a few grays. I do feel it's pretty vain to get all weird about a few gray (or silver, in my case--they are very shiny) hairs. At least I'm not going bald. Hahahahaa! That would suck. But I would look younger, and presumably cuter if I colored. I can't really decide. I feel sort of old to go for unnatural burgundies or high-lites, but like I said, I feel vain and high maintenance coloring specifically to banish the gray.

So please, share your hair color philosophies with me.

In scribing news, I was trying to do 3K between 12:01 and 11:59 on the 13th, but I only got halfway there. I do plan to finish Chapter Six before I go to bed and maybe get a good bite into Chapter Seven. But only after i enjoy the white trash meal of Koegels franks wrapped in cheese and Pillsbury Crescents.

Oh yeah, and H's mom loved the gift we sent her. It was an assortment of paints that set us back about $50. Yeah, apparently she paints and as she put it, she'll "be a paintin' fool" now that she is stocked up with paints. I guess I'm just lucky that writing is not nearly so expensive, my passion for fine red pens and flourscent high-liters not withstanding. ;-}

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Parseltongue MotherF*cker, Do You Speak It?!?
Parseltongue MotherF*cker, Do You Speak It?!?



[identity profile] jenx.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I figure I've earned every damn one of my silver hairs (mine are silver too, I have to restrain myself from pulling them out to see them better!) and I'll be damned if I'll conform to someone else's idea of what 'pretty' is. My dream is to one day have a long silver braid down my back when all the other old ladies at the home have short, blued, fluffed hair.
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[personal profile] itches 2006-05-14 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
'am I correct in thinking that a hair dresser should never, EVER comment on how much gray hair someone has?'

Incorrect. Things like that are their job, they're just supposed to do it in a nice way.

'At least I'm not going bald. Hahahahaa! That would suck.'
I'm 21. =(

[identity profile] gifgal.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
i'm not sure what my opinion is about a hairdresser making comments about gray hairs, ...however i know what you mean about the whole lighter highlight thing...that seems kinda old and done. if you do color it, maybe just a nice rich reddish brown?

i can stand in the pen aisle of any store and just stare/drool. notebooks? gaaaah hehe. i dont know why either, its not like *I* do anything with em hehe. i should send them to you! lol :)

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
Goodness, you do plan ahead, don't you?

That's a damn fine philosophy.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
I daresay that baldness is a bit more horrifying for women than it is for men. Thanks to Bruce Willis (or was it Yule Brynner, or maybe ving Rhames) baldness isn't a bad thing anymore.

If I had gone in for a color, I would expect someone to mention gray or gray coverage. But I was there for a trim, since the cut I gave myself was a bit uneven. She was trying to upsell me to a dye job by making me feel bad about how my hair looked, IMO. And that pissed me right off.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
i should send them to you! lol :)

yeah, you totally should! ;-}

If I did decide to color, I would probably stick pretty close to a brighter version of my natural shade. I do enjoy the red/browns though...
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[personal profile] itches 2006-05-14 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
Your right that mentioning it to try and sell you something is wrong.

[identity profile] jenx.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
I don't plan many things, but the braid is coming along nicely. I just have to wait on the silver part.

[identity profile] gifgal.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
haha, SOAP, i love it. motherfucking snakes! lol...

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_scarlet_ibis_/ 2006-05-14 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
You MUST dye your hair! It takes YEARSSS off you. It's the easiest way to look up to 20 years younger. Seriously. The key to looking youthful (not just young) is to be high contrast. Old people turn beige. I even dye my eyebrows because they've lightened with age.

I started going grey at 14 due to low thyroid, so dying is just a part of living as far as I'm concerned.

"I had to Email a mean Email to this elusive 'Sam' letting him know that his staff is something less than 'Fantastic.'" - Oh, you're a hoot.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

I think I need to reach a mental space where I can dye without the guilt of conforming to some wierd societal construct. After all, picking a new hair color is a lot of fun.
groovesinorbit: ani difranco (baseball cap ani)

[personal profile] groovesinorbit 2006-05-14 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm with [livejournal.com profile] jenx on the hair color thing. I earned these grey hairs, man. I'm letting them come as they will. Although, I reserve the right to dye my hair purple or something, if the mood strikes.

But it's all self-expression. How you want to express yourself with your hair is your deal. Society can get stuffed, either way.

[identity profile] spiralwitch.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
i started dying my hair at 18. i've never really stopped. now i wonder what my actual hair color is. i want to go more natural, but each time i try, it's not right. i am guilty of the strange burgundy/purple.

i too, have the silver hair.

my suggestion to you.... do the hair dye that is for gray hair. it comes in many pretty shades of brown and its very subtle.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
It's true. I just wonder if I wouldn't have an easeir time getting a job if I looked a bit younger. I feel like I'm too old to be as unsuccessful (on paper) as I am. Although I'm not sure if I'm not just putting too much pressure on my hair to bring me happiness. ;-}

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-14 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Ha! You just reminded me of those "wash that gray right outta my hair" commercials from the 70's. As if South Pacific would reach the masses...LOL.

That's a good suggestion though. I'd been convincing myself that I was coloring it my "natural" color. I was kidding myself!
groovesinorbit: ani difranco (baseball cap ani)

[personal profile] groovesinorbit 2006-05-15 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
*grin* Good hair can bring a lot of happiness. And you may be right about the hiring situation. People are shallow, so if dyed hair gets you in the door, it's an easy trick. And easy to stop doing after you've landed the job.

[identity profile] spiralwitch.livejournal.com 2006-05-15 11:50 am (UTC)(link)
heh, funny you should say that because i was singing the song when i typed this comment. i couldn't remember the name of the dye ... just that line repeated over in my head.

[identity profile] lickingtoad.livejournal.com 2006-05-15 01:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I've officially seen hair-color ads now, for women, for making your grey hair the best and cutest and sexiest grey possible. Like freaksilver. (Ooo, new word!)

But Cover Girl would never use, say, my great-grandmother as a freaksilver model; no, they've found or digitally manipulated a lady of impressive youth and stunning beauty (so I have been told) who happens to have bitchin' freaksilver hair.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-15 06:14 pm (UTC)(link)
That is so true.

[identity profile] nate101000.livejournal.com 2006-05-16 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Saying anything more direct than 'Have you ever considered coloring your hair(again)?' would have me walking out the door.

Well...

That's not true. I would probably just not tip, and not go there again.

[identity profile] wednes.livejournal.com 2006-05-16 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad to know I was not flying off the handle. I mean, I took the bus all the way there and then left without a cut, I was so damn mad.

First, I felt like she was saying my hair looked like crap, or I was really old looking. But even when I realized she was just trying to upsell me by making me feel bad--I was super, super pissed. Not only did I not want to give her $50 for color (especially when I can buy it at the store for like $12) I didn't want to give her $15 for a cut.

[identity profile] nate101000.livejournal.com 2006-05-18 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Yea. If she were just inconsiderate it would be one thing. But she actually tried to use your possible insecurity to sell you something. That's evil.