Come on Nate, this is absurd. Do you really think it's hypocritical to feel devastation at home or where people you know are more acutely than devastation on the other side of the world? If the house next to your caught fire, that would affect you more than some Detroit Devil's Night fire, and that's normal. You seem to be asserting that body count is the most important factor when totaling the "devastation" while Hollie appears to feel that body count is not as important as emotional and visceral impact. Both arguments are valid and there's no reason to make it a big, ugly deal.

No one wants to read that when they get home from therapy...