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One funny, One not so funny!
This post must encompass tow topics, first the funny one:
http://www.livejournal.com/community/wouldyouhitthat/
That's right, LJ's own "Would you Hit That" Community.
Even better than a ratings community, because any hideous swine can pass judgement.
Yay!
Now for the unpleasant news. There's a person out there that I have been calling a friend despite having a strong feeling that I really don't know them all that well. This person has been a guest in my home, indeed I've associated with them for quite some time. And after awhile, I became concerned that this person wasn't being honest with a mutual freind. When it was looked into, I learned that not only was my "friend" not being honest, but he was blaming me for his dishonesty. I seem to get blamed for the actions of weak willed persons fairly often. I must tell you that i don't feel that i have the power to strongly influence the actions of others. And if I did, I'm sure I'd use such a power in a much more personally advantageous way (if you know what I'm saying).
I gotta say, this is both surprising and hurtful. To learn that a supposed freind has a deep distrust of me is bad enough, but to hear that they are using this supposed distrust to decieve someone else is just fucking sad. Plus I gotta say, I'm shocked and upset that this person never came to me with whatever the hell his/her problem was. And if I wasn't so pissed, I would call up the third party and tell him/her exactly what I think. Frankly I'm wondering if I couldn't stand to keep my thinks to myself for a little while...
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So yeah, I'm bummed at lies and the lying liars who tell them.
And a confrontation seems worthless since this person never seems to think they are to blame for anything!
http://www.livejournal.com/community/wouldyouhitthat/
That's right, LJ's own "Would you Hit That" Community.
Even better than a ratings community, because any hideous swine can pass judgement.
Yay!
Now for the unpleasant news. There's a person out there that I have been calling a friend despite having a strong feeling that I really don't know them all that well. This person has been a guest in my home, indeed I've associated with them for quite some time. And after awhile, I became concerned that this person wasn't being honest with a mutual freind. When it was looked into, I learned that not only was my "friend" not being honest, but he was blaming me for his dishonesty. I seem to get blamed for the actions of weak willed persons fairly often. I must tell you that i don't feel that i have the power to strongly influence the actions of others. And if I did, I'm sure I'd use such a power in a much more personally advantageous way (if you know what I'm saying).
I gotta say, this is both surprising and hurtful. To learn that a supposed freind has a deep distrust of me is bad enough, but to hear that they are using this supposed distrust to decieve someone else is just fucking sad. Plus I gotta say, I'm shocked and upset that this person never came to me with whatever the hell his/her problem was. And if I wasn't so pissed, I would call up the third party and tell him/her exactly what I think. Frankly I'm wondering if I couldn't stand to keep my thinks to myself for a little while...
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So yeah, I'm bummed at lies and the lying liars who tell them.
And a confrontation seems worthless since this person never seems to think they are to blame for anything!